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Psychology of family relations: podkabluchnik
You are married. Long and happily. You have cut to yourself it on a nose. And so, druzhishche before to read my epistle, answer one question. You live with mum? If it so, you can not read — you the invalid of the childhood further. If it is a question of the mother-in-law, safely turn page — together they have already overcome you for a long time – a reality of psychology of family relations.
If as "mum" the wife works for you, from the point of view of psychology of family relations — you «podkabluchnik house». Here so, in plain terms, we have approached to those types which to be to you at all does not cost. On a floor lays «podkabluchnik ordinary» — the weak person, the loser on a life which, basically, tiptoes not only before the wife, but also before any surpassing it morally, or physically the person. If the word "kaprizulja" — you «podkabluchnik fascinated» is familiar to you. I understand, love — a piece ruthless and vsepronikajushchaja. Love of harm … Continue a phrase and draw corresponding conclusions.
But is more often meets «podkabluchnik imaginary» — the one who simply prefers not to contact the woman on household questions and consequently agrees with all and easy supposes certain manipulations with self. Tjazhelennym it simply covers with a board of "worldly wisdom" such insignificant feelings, as cowardice and laziness. Familiarly?
You drink secretly from the wife? Has ceased to meet friends whom it dislikes? It already the case record. Eventually, the wife has appeared later, and each normal woman in such cases is able to include the necessary toggle-switch in a head. And to live with abnormal — it is forbidden by the law. There is nothing heavier and more expensive in this life, than hemorrhoids — it not to measure by any money. What for to you it?
By the way, about money. Remember once and for all: Money wins Harm your case. Money — an alpha and omega your independence. At any moment the man should be able to earn-occupy-steal this money. If you it are able, then my councils to you are useless, druzhishche. You have the full right to buy a bottle of good wine, to fly on football, to hunt in the pleasure and to bring up the son. Carelessly. And not because decisions are accepted by you that is why, that you have the right to make of the decision.
All is very simple: it is necessary to tear off only a bum from a sofa, to go and take this world. From any edge what is pleasant to you more. Otherwise — «all know, how there are stinkers pretty brides». You will be a rag — it will wipe without hesitation about you feet. You will be the man — she the first will start you to respect.
You ask, I put which sense in words «to be the man»? Do not force to itself a brain! Words — only words. And sense, in the childhood, the father should put in pawn in you. Think of it before to open a bottle of beer and to lay down on a sofa in front of the TV …










Why at once podkabluchnik, it is simple mushchina loves the marry and does not wish it to upset
Yes such muzhiks only sljuntjai can be.
If you will not respect yourself it will be not not done also by others
Not all soft and kind people drivellers, easier character such, they such what are!!
“Not all soft and kind people drivellers, easier character such, they such what are!!”
From a moral point certainly is not present, and actually they that ninaest a gruel.
“Not all soft and kind people drivellers, easier character such, they such what are!!”
Here people sometimes also abuse these qualities, what kind the person would not be, it is necessary always to be able to tell resolute "IS not present" or to stand for itself.
And if in me the father has not put in pawn since the childhood, that? – At me a full family, but it works far off from us since to me 9 years were executed.
And in the rest – yes, I do not respect myself, from here and all problems: I even at all do not contact girls last year – neither is sincere, nor is sexual. Not to get to a trap. For I am not able to operate relations.
Muzhiks!!! Come to!!!! You after all muzhiks!!!!
Dmitry! You amaze me: “and if in me the father has not put in pawn since the childhood, that? – At me a full family, but it works far off from us since to me 9 years were executed.
And in the rest – yes, I do not respect myself, from here and all problems: I even at all do not contact girls last year – neither is sincere, nor is sexual. Not to get to a trap. For I am not able to operate relations. “So nizzja! Female day-8 of March. Unique day, when it is possible to execute all whims zhenshchiny unconditionally (but within limits), let soul will take away. You will be so to live further, as shchas, and on February, 23rd
There is on March, 8th … You the man, the stronger sex, gavnyj in the house and t.d … And if to hammer on sex and girls vobshchem better and not to live in general!
Kamila, inattentively read article: “Why at once podkabluchnik, it is simple mushchina loves the marry and does not wish it to upset“ Read once again, all you will understand …
Lera, it agree with you: ““ Not all soft and kind people drivellers, easier character such, they such what are!! ”
Here people sometimes also abuse these qualities, what kind the person would not be, it is necessary always to be able to tell resolute "IS not present" or to stand for itself. ”
And with Finger: “Not all soft and kind people drivellers, easier character such, they such what are!!”
From a moral point certainly is not present, and actually they that ninaest a gruel ”.sopli and sljuni let girls start up. It is their nature (without insults).a the muzhik
Should be firm, rigid, and, here and there, severe! In general, the stronger sex, vylaz
From under a heel also be typed a self-trust. And that with such rates sovremnnye
Amazons the world will correct …
And at me the impression was made, that it was written by the girl. And, very mercantile. Such type is familiar to me, – itself never recognise in commercialism. Certainly, in all the man-gruel … is always guilty
The public opinion generates people making a society. Parodoks, but it indeed, after all we since the childhood are brought up following public opinion of generation of our parents.
Here also has gone, since times of disorder of the union when at anybody nebylo work, to consider, that men "crushed". It was at all so, is simple in women the ancient, parent instinct has woken up, work is not present, the husband of the house, children and the wife hungry, – hence the husband as the man on what not goden …